Study Explains :
Why Men Naturally Reject Certain Women
(and the scientific reason they automatically choose others)
Over the years, Tanya had been told she was “outstanding “, “beautiful inside and out “, “gorgeous “, and “dream girlfriend material” by the guys she’d been out with …
However all their apparently loving words just made her feel stupid .
Because the the reality was :.
Even though they TOLD HER she was a great catch , they All refused to CHOOSE her.
Which indicated that they were either lying , or there was something else she was doing wrong : something so undesirable that they just couldn’t picture themselves building a relationship with her.
“It made me really feel useless ” she said . “Why am I never sufficient for the ones that seem perfect for me ?”.
“I just want someone to choose me”.
So, what makes a man select a certain type of woman while overlooking others? It’s a question that has plagued women for all of time .
And science might finally have an answer to this question .
According to research released in the academic journal, “Archives of Sexual Behavior”*, men do not pick a partner based on “rational reasons”.
As relationship expert Clayton Max told us, “It’s not about ticking the criteria on a man’s list of a ‘dream relationship ‘. A woman can’t persuade men to want to be with her”.
The point is , Max states , when a woman attempts to convince a man , put pressure on him , or show him how ideal she is, it’s more than likely to backfire, as these behaviors signal the exact opposite of what makes a man absolutely sure a certain partner is it for him.
“The reality is” according to Max, “guys select women based on whether they do one specific thing :.
They pick women who set off that hypnotic emotion of INFATUATION”.
Psychologists have discovered that infatuation originates from a primal instinct deep within the brain …
When a man’s infatuation impulse is triggered , it makes no difference if a potential partner has any of the criteria he’s been seeking .
They may be entirely ‘incompatible’ theoretically , but he’ll make time for her. He’ll move cities to be with her . .
This is because the Infatuation Instinct literally forces him to ignore everything else except for being with her .
So how does a woman activate a man’s Infatuation Instinct … to make him so overwhelmed with desire that he’s willing to do what ever it takes to convince her just how much he wants her?