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We sometimes wonder just what it is our girlfriends chat about to their friends when we are not there. Sometimes it would be great to be a fly on the wall. Are our partners truthful with us when we enquire to them what it is that they chat to their friends about?

Does she share some of your dirty laundry with her girlfriends or divulge private information you and your lover share. Is there something particular you entrust to your partner that is very private only to feel paranoid when mixing with her friends and worried that she has possibly revealed your personal details.

Does your lady chat about your *** life and all the gory details. Perhaps you have a private sexual issue you only share with your partner, but you suspect she chats about this to her girlfriends.

Females are more inclined to chat to their friends regarding personal issues than males are. We have revealed several popular topics women chat about and have shared actual feed back from nearly 200 females.  

Surveys targeting 18-35 year old women through Australia’s leading online dating site revealed some of the things female singles and females in relationships chat about when they meet up.

Fashion.

Many of these women were swept up with the latest clothing trends. Upmarket and eye catching girl wear was the subject most talked about when females met up for their regular chat sessions. Looking and feeling great in clothes was a priority. Womens glossy mags are a big influence with women and the latest clothing styles.

Diet.

Females liked to catch up with their friends to also discuss food, a healthy eating plan and exercise. The look good feel good method seems to be alive and well with alot of females adopting healthy habits using diet and exercise as part of their routines. Health and well being was an important factor that women chat about.

Love.

Love and romance was another popular topic. With all the chat nowdays about being in the singles and dating arena vs being in a committed partnership its hard to know what many females of this day and age are truly looking for. The Australian online dating site used to carry out this research claims that women generally prefer a secure environment with a loving relationship and often raise the issue with their friends of the difficulty catching the right man.

Sex.

Females chat to each other about their *** lives alot. Instead of going into details about certain *** acts (unlike their male counterparts) females chat about this subject on a more mental or sensitive level. Women chat about whether they are doing it or whether they arent, and with the person they are doing it with, sometimes they chat about how long it has been since they last had sex, or which man they fancied. Their boyfriends sexual performance or level of satisfaction was also a popular chat topic. 

Certain free online dating and singles chat “rooms” offer free chat groups set up for females and males where they can chat about topics relating to their own gender and exchange or share experiences.  Go online and search under free online dating and chat “rooms” to find out more.

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Mr Online Dating asked:


 

Flying solo can sometimes have a certain stigma attached especially for females. The singles stigma can become more intense as we age. There is sometimes expectations from family for their 30 + year old sons or daughters to wed and have children and live happily ever after.

 

An alarming 1 in 3 marriages will end in divorce, not to mention the spill over of a failed marriage which can sometimes takes years to undo, its little wonder we are increasingly choosing the singles life nowadays. Pressures such as the high cost of living and other related financial burdens are attributed to many divorces. This is resulting in less reproduction which sees an increasing ageing population emerging.

 

 

As baby boomers age some end up divorced, widowed or have chosen to stay in the singles lifestyle. The singles lifestyle often reflects a ‘live for the moment’ logic which is fantastic and should be experienced by us all at some point in our lives, although there is an increasing amount of singles remaining single and are not planning for tomorrow.

 

This pattern sees ageing singles experiencing and prolonging the ‘lifestyle’ and running out of funds and employment options when they reach their 30s and 40s. This particular group of singles are at more risk of depression or self harm than any other group as research suggests that was carried out at Lexus University. This self destructing lifestyle is becoming the ‘norm’ more than ever among ageing singles which could result in our future and security as a whole come under question. This carefree lifestyle could in fact create less of everything we currently take for granted with ageing singles not playing a part or contributing to society for our future everyday needs where in fact they become the problem. This may well result in less offspring, less fathers, less Mothers, fewer Doctors, less police, fewer volunteers, less school teachers, fewer military, and the list goes on. This could eventually snow ball     and result in  short falls in our every day products and services we assume as a given.

 

So in theory what could result is a larger drain on social services with a declining number of qualified or skilled workers to carry an even bigger load resulting in lopsided societies in terms of qualified workers vs unqualified unqualified workers. If western society doesn’t change its attitude within the next 10 - 15 years, this most certainly will be the emerging outcome.    

 

So is there a fix for this inevitable out of control destiny that is waiting for us? Do we as singles enjoy too much freedom with no means of applying the brake? Does this raise concerns about our 100% unrestricted access to virtually everything on offer? Is democracy killing us slowly?

 

Unrestricted freedom seems to have created a monster among singles that constantly needs to be fead. This beast only grows bigger and hungrier as many of this group are constantly looking for a better social buzz.

The number of ageing singles using free Online dating and chat room services are increasing compared to 5 years ago.Free Online dating and chat services that have offered statistics for this research claim that in 2003 their data base for singles aged between 35 - 45 was at 23%. The same free online dating and chat services have offered statistics for this same age group in 2008 and now show that 35% of their data base consists of this age group. Up 12% in 5 years. This is proof that there are more and more singles simply remaining single for longer than ever before. 

 

Singles travel is a trend that has seen this demographic alter. In 1993 two in ten travelers went abroad as singles. Amazingly, Fourteen years on saw 2007  statistics rise to  six in ten travelers going it alone. Is being partnered up really that bad? It appears many singles are taking life by the horns and riding off into the sunset and are reluctant to return to contribute to the core fundamentals desperately needed for our sustainability. With all the technology and power the world has created we have no immediate means to stop it.

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