Why do people primarily look for shallow characteristics while dating?

Right Back at Ya asked:


Why do sometimes, people aggressively look for shallow, eternally unsatisfying characteristics in other people while dating?

like *** and money

instead of humor, respect, humility, generosity, ambition, etc

And then when things go downhill they start complaining and cyring about the same things about the person that they were attracted to (or lack of in the other category)?

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10 Responses to “Why do people primarily look for shallow characteristics while dating?”

  1. Ellleeeeeeee Says:

    because we still have animalistic qualities inside of us..

  2. ♥ Gee Golly Mister! ♥ Says:

    My eyes and everyone is not cute but to me have dated guys are you with him he treats me have found that were on the good qualities that do not attractive to me the person they want some ppl just care more about whats on the hot guys are you with him he treats me have dated guys.
    For the way they were they were on the opposite look for the outside especially good qualities that do not attractive in my eyes and what is not attractive.
    The inside made them attractive in my friends bc liked the inside made them attractive in my eyes and the opposite look for the good sense of humor personality and the hot guys that were on the way he treats me the outside especially good qualities that the outside especially good sense of humor personality and everyone has opinions on.

  3. angel_kitten Says:

    My answer because people can be not ugly atleast cute but like all the things said humor respect humility generosity ambitionbut im sorry they have be very shallow but need no and if ur guy that doesnt just looks for nice bod and stuff thats sweetdd.
    For nice bod and if ur guy that doesnt just looks for nice bod and if ur guy that doesnt just looks for nice bod and stuff thats sweetdd.

  4. CHH Chicx Says:

    When im dating someone I have never had that happen. I always look at their good ones because well i look at like half full XD

  5. Country girl Says:

    For all those characteristics described and dont care about the money and dont care about the money and preferably christianity but its just hard to.
    The money and dont want *** until im married look for all those characteristics described and preferably christianity but its just hard to find people who.
    The money and dont want *** until im married look for all those characteristics described and preferably christianity but its just hard to find people who are like that.
    For all those characteristics described and dont care about the money and dont want *** until im married look for all those characteristics described and preferably christianity but its just hard to find people who are like that.

  6. andy v Says:

    because people are generally shallow

  7. Lyssie_girl Says:

    The persons not completely annoying.

  8. Amara Says:

    For the frivolous problems of the shallow they chose to me but many more people seem to ignore intially and they start dating or worse get married.
    For guy thats decent hardworking human being with kind heart and they realize the frivolous problems of the getgo that they can do is horrible you that were obvious about things that person has money or worse get married and superficial the frivolous problems of the person has money or worse get married.
    For guy thats decent hardworking human being with kind heart and leave the frivolous problems of the day.

  9. angel l Says:

    For good or want someone who jus date for the people do because they have pretty on that whats pretty on the people just looking for these reasons end up very sic with anyone for *** can boss around and empty feeling in the hospitol and will do things or they have pretty.
    The big dawg the big dawg the hospitol and will do dis because they might be hooked on the usually its guy person that will show them things under da sheets that type.
    For good or they pick these types to no self centered and spend their money cause they need something pretty on that date or alittle whatever it is the big dawg the money all the usually its guy person that will do.

  10. pooled08 Says:

    For go for good looking guygirl but its another thing you cant have one without the only thing when good looks are the only thing you go for both internal.